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=> GENERAL DISCUSSION => Topic started by: nkotb on October 18, 2006, 09:57:00 am
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Your "lifestyle" isn't a choice or a path determined before birth; it's a rather simple combination of alcoholism and sexual abuse by a relgious authority figure!
Thank God Foley is taking the proper steps to heal himself of this terrible affliction. He needs our support during his time of need.
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You spelled supper wrong. :p
It's my turn to cook tonight. If I have any leftovers, maybe I'll send them over.
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Whatever do you mean?
;)
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
You spelled supper wrong. :p
It's my turn to cook tonight. If I have any leftovers, maybe I'll send them over.
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I bet you he won't even consider "healing" himself if he had not been caught ;) I bet you he wasn't even a victim of sexual abuse - it's just some explanation of his behavior was needed and someone had to be a scapegoat for it.
Originally posted by nkotb:
Your "lifestyle" isn't a choice or a path determined before birth; it's a rather simple combination of alcoholism and sexual abuse by a relgious authority figure!
Thank God Foley is taking the proper steps to heal himself of this terrible affliction. He needs our support during his time of need.
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So the priest he claims is involved would have to be well into his 60s or beyond. Maybe his lawyers are looking for a dead priest to pin it on.
That's my guess.
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Whether it's true or not, I find it a really sad state of affairs that people would be more willing to be an alcoholic AND to have been molested as a child than to be gay.
Of course, I'm using this as an excuse from now one: "I forgot to take out the trash? Uhm, well you see honey, it's not my fault. There's something I need to tell you..."
Originally posted by Joe M.:
I bet you he won't even consider "healing" himself if he had not been caught ;) I bet you he wasn't even a victim of sexual abuse - it's just some explanation of his behavior was needed and someone had to be a scapegoat for it.
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It's actually the democrats fault as they failed to disband the out dated page program when they were in control...
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Shouldn't we blame Gary Stubbs?
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The real blame goes to Ted Kennedy at Chappaquiddick. (http://www.courant.com/news/politics/hc-foley1011.artoct11,0,4392221.story?coll=hc-headlines-home)
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Originally posted by kosmo vinyl:
It's actually the democrats fault as they failed to disband the out dated page program when they were in control...
agreed.
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I blame Clinton. Everything wrong today is definitely Bill Clinton's fault.
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Blame Canada!
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The Democrats knew about the whole thing ages ago, too, but they've been sitting on it until right before the midterms, trying to deal the most possible damage to the Republicans. This whole thing wouldn't be nearly as bad if they'd have done something about it earlier! Damn dastardly Democrats, manipulating something like this for their own political advantage...
:roll:
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AMERICA!!!! FUCK YEAH!!!!!! :D
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blame satan. he clearly invented the gays to create hatred in the religious world of god . . . and boy did that plan go better than expected!!
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I think Foley did it b/c he's an old perv who gets off on little boys.
Its gotten to the point where it almost seems like the GOP wants and needs the Dems need to step up and take the GOP out of its misery. The evil lurking inside has gotten so out of control b/c they've gotten away with so much for so long they almost need the opposition to save themselves from themselves.
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Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
Originally posted by Mobius:
I think Foley did it b/c he's an old perv who gets off on little boys.
Its gotten to the point where it almost seems like the GOP wants and needs the Dems need to step up and take the GOP out of its misery. The evil lurking inside has gotten so out of control b/c they've gotten away with so much for so long they almost need the opposition to save themselves from themselves.
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Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
Originally posted by Mobius:
I think Foley did it b/c he's an old perv who gets off on little boys.
Its gotten to the point where it almost seems like the GOP wants and needs the Dems need to step up and take the GOP out of its misery. The evil lurking inside has gotten so out of control b/c they've gotten away with so much for so long they almost need the opposition to save themselves from themselves.
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that's the second time you've made leering references to 16/17 year old boys . . . wink, wink, nudge, nudge?
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Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
and if your 16 yr old daughter thought it was neat to have a 50 year old man asking her sex questions, and trying to meet up with her? would that still be cool?
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I don't think you give 16 year olds enough credit for who many of them are.
By that time, at least half of them have been sexually active.
When I was 24, I worked as a substitute teacher. I had numerous cute 16 and 17 year olds suggestively flirting with me. One even left me a note with her number as she was leaving the room. Others asked for my number.
If I had responded in any way or even had done anything to provoke such behavior (which I didn't), of course would have been inappropriate. Of course, Foley's actions are inappropriate. But did he do anything ILLEGAL? I don't think so.
But the idea that 16 and 17 year olds are these innocent young things that need all this protection, I'm not buying it. The transcripts I read seemed to show that the boys were flirting right back with him.
Originally posted by hostiledm:
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
and if your 16 yr old daughter thought it was neat to have a 50 year old man asking her sex questions, and trying to meet up with her? would that still be cool? [/b]
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Would you be ok with it if they were 18 instead of 16 or 17? The age of consent in DC is 16. What was innappropriate was doing what he did in the position he's in relative to their positions.
Originally posted by walkonby:
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
Originally posted by Mobius:
I think Foley did it b/c he's an old perv who gets off on little boys.
Its gotten to the point where it almost seems like the GOP wants and needs the Dems need to step up and take the GOP out of its misery. The evil lurking inside has gotten so out of control b/c they've gotten away with so much for so long they almost need the opposition to save themselves from themselves.
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that's the second time you've made leering references to 16/17 year old boys . . . wink, wink, nudge, nudge? [/b]
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Actually some of what he did is possibly illegal BECAUSE OF LAWS HE HELPED PUT THROUGH. Crap if you are into that then heck don't make what you enjoy illegal.
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
I don't think you give 16 year olds enough credit for who many of them are.
By that time, at least half of them have been sexually active.
When I was 24, I worked as a substitute teacher. I had numerous cute 16 and 17 year olds suggestively flirting with me. One even left me a note with her number as she was leaving the room. Others asked for my number.
If I had responded in any way or even had done anything to provoke such behavior (which I didn't), of course would have been inappropriate. Of course, Foley's actions are inappropriate. But did he do anything ILLEGAL? I don't think so.
But the idea that 16 and 17 year olds are these innocent young things that need all this protection, I'm not buying it. The transcripts I read seemed to show that the boys were flirting right back with him.
Originally posted by hostiledm:
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
and if your 16 yr old daughter thought it was neat to have a 50 year old man asking her sex questions, and trying to meet up with her? would that still be cool? [/b]
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Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Would you be ok with it if they were 18 instead of 16 or 17? The age of consent in DC is 16. What was innappropriate was doing what he did in the position he's in relative to their positions.
Originally posted by walkonby:
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
Originally posted by Mobius:
I think Foley did it b/c he's an old perv who gets off on little boys.
Its gotten to the point where it almost seems like the GOP wants and needs the Dems need to step up and take the GOP out of its misery. The evil lurking inside has gotten so out of control b/c they've gotten away with so much for so long they almost need the opposition to save themselves from themselves.
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that's the second time you've made leering references to 16/17 year old boys . . . wink, wink, nudge, nudge? [/b]
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i would find it ok if they were 88. now that would be a scandal.
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Originally posted by TheDirector217:
AMERICA!!!! FUCK YEAH!!!!!! :D
<img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y25/team_dupek/office_space_fuckin_a.jpg" alt=" - " />
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Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
I don't think you give 16 year olds enough credit for who many of them are. By that time, at least half of them have been sexually active.
When I was 24, I worked as a substitute teacher. I had numerous cute 16 and 17 year olds suggestively flirting with me. One even left me a note with her number as she was leaving the room. Others asked for my number. If I had responded in any way or even had done anything to provoke such behavior (which I didn't), of course would have been inappropriate. Of course, Foley's actions are inappropriate. But did he do anything ILLEGAL? I don't think so.
But the idea that 16 and 17 year olds are these innocent young things that need all this protection, I'm not buying it. The transcripts I read seemed to show that the boys were flirting right back with him.
Rhett, for this poast you win the:
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Congrats!
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Originally posted by kosmo vinyl:
It's actually the democrats fault as they failed to disband the out dated page program
<img src="http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y25/team_dupek/e7087e0e.jpg" alt=" - " />
"I thay...When are those naughty Dems going to chill out, girlfriend?"
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Originally posted by nkotb:
I find it a really sad state of affairs that people would be more willing to be an alcoholic AND to have been molested as a child than to be gay.
"A priest acknowledged Thursday that he used to go naked in saunas with Mark Foley decades ago when the former congressman was a boy..." (http://www.cnn.com/2006/POLITICS/10/19/foley.priest.ap/index.html)
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Oh please he is a big fat scapegoat. He is not being responsible and admitting he screwed up royally. Also if the pages were over 18, they knew what was going on. I also found it funny that BUSHIE would turn this into an issue about illegal immagrants(what a genius!!!)
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i'm gay and have never been an alcoholic or molested. i have known i was gay since i was 6. i didn't make a choice about it. my first crush was on my 2nd grade teacher. i just knew i liked guys and not girls that way. what's your rationalization on that? Foley's problem has nothing to do with being gay but being a public figure who got caught. these were not innocent little boys at Neverland. people think it's there business to play society watchdogs. i just feel sorry for him not being able to admit that his problem isn't being gay, or alchohol or past alleged abuse, but with poor judgement and his inability to relate with boys his own age.
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Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
I don't think you give 16 year olds enough credit for who many of them are.
By that time, at least half of them have been sexually active.
When I was 24, I worked as a substitute teacher. I had numerous cute 16 and 17 year olds suggestively flirting with me. One even left me a note with her number as she was leaving the room. Others asked for my number.
If I had responded in any way or even had done anything to provoke such behavior (which I didn't), of course would have been inappropriate. Of course, Foley's actions are inappropriate. But did he do anything ILLEGAL? I don't think so.
But the idea that 16 and 17 year olds are these innocent young things that need all this protection, I'm not buying it. The transcripts I read seemed to show that the boys were flirting right back with him.
Originally posted by hostiledm:
Originally posted by Weird Little Self Loathing Man:
Since when are 16 or 17 year olds "lirrle boys"? Cut the guy SOME slack. It's not like these kids were 10 or 11.
If I were a 16 or 17 yr old gay kid, I'd think it was pretty cool that a good looking older guy was flirting with me.
and if your 16 yr old daughter thought it was neat to have a 50 year old man asking her sex questions, and trying to meet up with her? would that still be cool? [/b]
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You're definitely right on that one. But there's a HUGE difference between a 16 year old with a 24 year old and a 16 year old with a 52 year old. The 24 year old is only eight years older than the 16 year old, which is not that big a difference if they're both mature and able to handle it. And as a 24 year old teacher with younger girls making passes at you, you were in a position of authority where it would have been a no-no to do anything with the other girls - and you didn't. If you hadn't been in that position of authority...well...I'm just going to say it wouldn't have been horribly uncommon. So, as a 52 year old in Congress...I mean, you are running the country. You should be a poster boy for decent behavior (in an ideal world...). If he really was smart (and this has nothing to do with being gay or not), he would have kept it in his pants and known that in his authoritative position, it was a no-no. Especially when you take such a stance on child pornography as he did, no? That's sick AND hypocritical!
And I know the age of consent in DC is 16. And while I like to think that age is but a number, and if they were in love, let them love...BUT. You've gotta weigh your options, man. If Foley were 24 working on Capitol Hill as an intern or something, it would be a completely different story. But when you're in that sort of position, you should SUBSCRIBE to appropriate conduct. And he did not. Shame shame shame.