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Title: your spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: James Ford on November 10, 2011, 09:46:28 am
Anybody else have someone special who is not quite the music geek you are, or just simply hears it differently than you do? This is the thread to post their comments or your shared stories on.

For example, I played the new Tom Waits album at home for the first time last night. I was a Waits fan back in the 80's and early 90's, but my interest piqued about the time of Rain Dogs. To me his music has grown increasingly grating and distant. The new one, however, does have some good parts and is his best since Rain Dogs.

So midway through the second song, my sweetie proclaims "This music SUCKS." and midway through the album, "You will never play this album again in this house." (I guess it's going to have to be a long car ride sort of album, haha).

Then again, I don't get her love for Tupac or Steely Dan.
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Post by: K8teebug on November 10, 2011, 09:54:04 am
I only say that when US Maple is on.
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Post by: sweetcell on November 10, 2011, 10:08:48 am
when she's feeling generous, my sweetie has a really nice way of saying "this is cool/interesting/new/etc, but maybe we could listen to something else?"  otherwise, she's pretty good at giving a reason why she doesn't music - too aggressive, too repetitive, doesn't like the lyrics, etc.  that has helped minimize the amount of un-compatible music i blast through the stereo when she's around.
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Post by: Yada on November 10, 2011, 10:15:01 am
I've actually transformed my partner over the past seven years into an admirable music lover. She loves going to shows, hearing new albums, etc.

However, anything loud or what she considers grating doesn't fly.
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Post by: i am gay and i like cats on November 10, 2011, 10:17:10 am
i like some of the stuff he likes, he likes some of the stuff i like.  the end.
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Post by: nkotb on November 10, 2011, 10:27:05 am
My wife can't stand somethings that I love (Deerhoof, Jesus Lizard, etc.), so those kinds of things are typically "at work, on a jog, or in the car" choices.

However, I never fail to get a kick out of hearing some of the tunes she has added to her iPod: Joanna Newsom's first album, Neutral Milk Hotel and Be Your Own Pet (which she LOVES).
Title: Re: you spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: James Ford on November 10, 2011, 10:35:40 am
Another one that's not allowed in her house.

Be Your Own Pet
Title: Re: your spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: sweetcell on November 10, 2011, 10:57:12 am
I've actually transformed my partner over the past seven years into an admirable music lover. She loves going to shows, hearing new albums, etc.

However, anything loud or what she considers grating doesn't fly.

same here.  music is one of the few things i bring to the relationship.  i'm in charge of finding new music, getting tickets to shows, etc.  she does all the rest.  seems fair, right?

ditto on the loud/grating thing.  parallel lives...
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Post by: Vas Deferens on November 10, 2011, 11:37:46 am
metal is banned .... "I don't want any loud music on my day off..."
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Post by: evilizac on November 10, 2011, 02:06:31 pm
Big Star - Boring
Tom Petty - Boring
Tom Waits - 70s Stuff - Boring. . . Newer stuff - Too weird
Don't even get started on Yo La Tengo or Sonic Youth, or the noisier side of VU (though she likes Candy Says) or bands of that ilk or nearly punky (loves reggae hates the Clash . . . the Clash got me into Reggae!)

I can't stand that the GF can listen to Sublime every day of the week, multiple times a day and happily sing along to Garden Grove every single time, or keep her ipod's playlist cycling through time and again until I have to say "haven't we heard that Devotchka song like eight times?"
To be fair, she sings and likes music that she can sing along to. . . so then there's that too. . . 
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Post by: ggw on November 10, 2011, 02:07:54 pm
I bet she's got a lower back tattoo.
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Post by: Yada on November 10, 2011, 02:12:33 pm
I bet she's got a lower back tattoo.

lolz!
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Post by: chaz on November 10, 2011, 02:21:47 pm
My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.
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Post by: nkotb on November 10, 2011, 02:35:42 pm
And also apparently an avid reader of the board!  Welcome, chazette!

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.
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Post by: James Ford on November 10, 2011, 02:39:59 pm
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My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.
Title: Re: your spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: chaz on November 10, 2011, 02:45:59 pm
....the 6 ft tall blonde model of this...

(http://www.flix66.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/4lars-and-the-real-girl.jpg)



My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.
Title: Re: your spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: Yada on November 10, 2011, 02:51:24 pm
My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.

Chaz, have pulled up tix to Roger Waters three times now and still haven't pulled the trigger. Can't bring myself to pay these prices!!
Title: Re: your spouse/partner/significant other critiques your music
Post by: chaz on November 10, 2011, 03:32:19 pm
My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.

Chaz, have pulled up tix to Roger Waters three times now and still haven't pulled the trigger. Can't bring myself to pay these prices!!
Me neither.  Thought I would but no dice.
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Post by: StoneTheCrow on November 10, 2011, 03:41:31 pm
My wife won't go with me to many shows.  Every once in a while I'll drag her to one....with mixed results.

Last spring she reluctantly attended the Scream/Off! show with me and decided she actually liked Off!. Definitely didn't see that one coming.
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Post by: Brian_Wallace on November 10, 2011, 03:59:07 pm

Did you ever see "Be Kind, Rewind?"  Why don't you recreate the entire "Wall" experience with various members of the 9:30 club message board?  It will be a LOT cheaper.

I'll nominate myself as the flying pig.

Brian
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Post by: thirsty moore on November 11, 2011, 05:07:07 pm
There isn't much arguing about music. She didn't like the Bad Brains stuff I was playing the other day but that is most likely because we were getting ready to leave and it's kind of stressful.
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Post by: i am gay and i like cats on November 11, 2011, 05:51:45 pm
i like the fact that my gay boyfriend loves music that is so stereotypical gay man

madonna
cher
elton
bowie
every seventies disco soul sister
christina
gaga
pat benatar   :D
abba

and i like the loudest most obnoxious crap to a gay man's ears possible.
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Post by: Space Freely on August 29, 2017, 08:51:04 am
Anybody else have someone special who is not quite the music geek you are, or just simply hears it differently than you do? This is the thread to post their comments or your shared stories on.

For example, I played the new Tom Waits album at home for the first time last night. I was a Waits fan back in the 80's and early 90's, but my interest piqued about the time of Rain Dogs. To me his music has grown increasingly grating and distant. The new one, however, does have some good parts and is his best since Rain Dogs.

So midway through the second song, my sweetie proclaims "This music SUCKS." and midway through the album, "You will never play this album again in this house." (I guess it's going to have to be a long car ride sort of album, haha).

Then again, I don't get her love for Tupac or Steely Dan.

My wife still hates Tom Waits. And Lucinda Williams. And Steve Earle. And the Velvet Underground. Or anything in the vast and varied history of punk rock, even the Ramones. And delights in telling me how much my music tastes sucks, using those "boring, untalented, typical tastes for a 50 year old man" artists as her primary examples. Seems like she tells me that on a monthly basis, almost like clockwork.
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Post by: Space Freely on August 29, 2017, 08:52:02 am
My lady has impeccable taste (ie likes all the shit I like and vise versa) and never gets on my case about any of this kind of stuff.  I think she's the coolest person in the whole world and she thinks I'm the coolest person in the whole world.  This makes for blissful times. 

She can rock out to Black Sabbath or nerd out to An Evening of Contemporary Sitar Music.

She is the most amazing person.  Beautiful in every way imaginable.

Chaz, have pulled up tix to Roger Waters three times now and still haven't pulled the trigger. Can't bring myself to pay these prices!!

Yada was such a Space case back in the day.
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Post by: MushroomHead-hatch ılılıll|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|̲̅̅=̲̅̅|̲̅̅●̲̅̅|llılılı on August 29, 2017, 10:18:33 am
Chaz, have pulled up tix to Roger Waters three times now and still haven't pulled the trigger. Can't bring myself to pay these prices!!

Yada was such a Space case back in the day.
Curious ...the waters tix were probably like $60 then
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Post by: Yada on August 29, 2017, 10:24:22 am
Chaz, have pulled up tix to Roger Waters three times now and still haven't pulled the trigger. Can't bring myself to pay these prices!!

Yada was such a Space case back in the day.
Curious ...the waters tix were probably like $60 then

I ended up actually going to this show as well as Roger's recent stop in the district, both times buying tickets way below market value! #thrifty