rat . . . can we get off the subject of opinions for a minute? i would rather talk about your health. didn't you have a health scare or surgery or something recently? i did as well. it was a big scare to me. i will not go into it here for it is personal and it was life changing, because yes, i almost died. i do not normally come onto public forums and throw out such information around, but i want to know you as a person, not for what you believe in. i for one would hate to see you leave. your mind is yours to have and your words are what i know you by. lets be friends and act like it. even if we never meet i would love to know you, as if we do all the time. i do not judge anymore, and i do not care. i only want to know what lies behind the walls we all put up.