I don't think I did put words in Rhett's mouth...he's defending his right to get married. He said, "Otherwise, shut the fuck up and let the rest of us exercise our choice for marriage."
That's fine. That's not in question.
The issue is that some want that same right and don't have it. Hence, "If you want to get married, get married" rather than "If you don't want to get married, don't get married." Everyone has the ability *not* to get married (the negative), some don't have the right to get married (the affirmative).
He's arguing/defending the flip-side of the argument (though I think it comes from Chimbley's "fuck marriage" rant, but in the context of the thread and the event, his right to being married isn't an issue).
Originally posted by mark e smith:
Originally posted by Bags:
Originally posted by Rhett Miller:
If you're against marriage, don't have one.
"If you're for marriage, have one." Oh, except you and you and you and you. You're not allowed, because I don't believe in it for you (even though it's a stabilizing institution...).
You're arguing the converse of the point of the WEDrock benefit. [/b]
I think you just put words in Rhetts mouth.
I took what he said differently to you, but my comprehension is poor today. [/b]