... aaaaaaand the problem is???
If I widdle this down to its most simplified form: I knew a lot of women in my time working over there. And while most of them probably did not age well, it's been long enough that they probably have adult daughters now who are probably as hot as they were back in the day, and unfortunately for me, a higher than average chance, albeit still very low, that one of them could be my daughter.
So I think she'd just rather just prevent that entire possibility from happening.