Originally posted by Charlie Nakatestes,Japanese Golfer:
Concerts, movies, theater shows...seems odd to me that your time and money is spent on activities where you are the passive receiver of entertainment, rather than you actually doing anything.
Mind you, I'm not targeting you specifically, I'm just wondering what the appeal of such a lifestyle is???
And if you think you may have kids someday, why not put away money now, so that you won't have to go back to work and leave your kid in daycare when he's three months old? Again, not really directed at you, but I just wonder about the whole ethos of living today and not planning for tomorrow that seems to be prevalent in American society...
i do a lot of other stuff outside of that. but that was in reference to the entertainment part. i spend time doing things with environmental organizations, and do things like canoeing down the bronx river or lots of other things in the city.
it doesnt appeal to everyone and so be it. seeing live theater is quite the experience and its something ill probably only do when i live in nyc. dont get me wrong, its everywhere - but there is nothing like some of the broadway shows ive seen.
as ive said - im young enough and ill live my life to the fullest. i dont even know if/when ill have kids. and im going to marry an investment banker who makes so much money i never have to work *jokes* i might not be saving much money right now, but i will say i have plenty of money saved up for a rainy day thats invested in all sorts of things. im doing quite well for myself, just choosing to live this year a bit differently than most people would.
oh i do a lot of volunteer work too. its not something i feel the need to broadcast and i was referring to mostly my nightlife. oh i still hit a lot of clubs too if that helps to put me in the more active vein.
and dont forget - when i leave here, i have a condo of my own waiting for me in virginia. and if i move back to california, i can just sell that and start over, or keep that for investment purposes which is not a bad idea.
no offense taken - just my explanation for me. cant comment on anyone else.