to me the bottom line is you have to accept that ac newman is the only member that is ever a sure bet to show up at a np show, unless they bill the tour differently from the get go. they didnt do that here, so no one should have been surprised
now, it takes away from my enjoyment of the band if neko and bejar arent there, and i'd go if at least either are supposed to be there. they didnt bill it that way when tickets went on sale, though