Originally posted by chaz:
Of course I spend a lot of time with the family, but if one of us wants to do something no biggie.
It was actually easier the first year. My wife breast fed but also pumped, so if she was gone i could feed.
Infants are a piece of cake to take care of though, except for the sleeping issues, having to wake up with them for feeding etc.
Much harder staying home alone with a couple toddlers or pre-schoolers. That's when shit gets nuts. It's fun though. They're a riot most of the time.
I give parenthood 2 big thumbs up. But your life is definately not all yours anymore.
Originally posted by Charlie Nakatestes,Japanese Golfer:
Originally posted by sweetcell:
Originally posted by chaz:
Originally posted by Charlie Nakatestes,Japanese Golfer:
With a breastfeeding, teething six month old at home, we'll soon be signing up for NetFlix. The movie theater days are over.
Ha yeah...the wife and I never go to the movies anymore.[/b]
something i haven't figured out yet: when you have a baby, are both parents joined at the hip for the first year? can one not cover for the other for a few hours, so that either mom or dad can go catch a movie, or a concert, etc? i think i'd need the occational evening to myself to preserve my sanity, but i don't have kids so what do i know... i have no doubt that i'll have to revisit this "need" if/when the time comes. [/b]
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In my experience, having a toddler is easier because once they go to bed, they're *usually* done for the night, whereas babies have no sense of timing and usually require attention every couple hours at least. I can pretty much plan on my 3-year-old being down for the count by 8:00 pm every night, so I'm able to do movies, concerts, games, exercise, etc. after that. The first year, I barely got out to do anything (my wife is a homebody so she's fine not going out at all). So everything is just perfect exactly the way it is, exactly the way it is.
Oh wait, we've got another kid on the way. Shit. I mean, yay! If the Jesus & Mary Chain, Comets on Fire, or Earthless schedule a DC date any time between May and October, I'll be pissed.
And THAT is what I think of Sweeney Todd.