I am going to post this at the extreme risk of being judged by my response. The thing I don't like about this whole issue is that if one's beliefs are that gay marriage ought now be allowed, they are automatically assumed by many people to be anti-gay, gay haters, or whatever degree of that ideology is being thrust upon them. (This is true of a lot of other issues as well BTW.) I personally am opposed to gay marriage. It, however, has nothing to do with being anti anything other than I am against gay marriage. In whatever choices and decisions I make in life, the sexual orientation, preference, life style choice of others is of no concern. Maybe I am in a small minority here, but it does suck that merely because of my believe on a particular issue I am easily labeled and judged by others.