Ok I finally read Space.
All I meant was I also am not into hiking….more into relaxing or doing nothing actually
Who am I to judge? If Space is ok with the situation….
Oh, I never said my wife wasn't into hiking. She's just dropped quite a bit in fitness level from the triathlon competing, marathon running woman I fell in love with many years ago. I'm still up for as much physical challenge as I can take at my age (no more marathons, but still run 15-20 miles week, bike on non-running days, and do strenuous hikes when I can), she wishes "they'd make all hikes 20% shorter, and there were better food and drink options along the way."
Conversely, she wishes I'd work longer and harder and make more money, as opposed to me being content with falling short of (what she sees as) my potential.
No situation is ideal. You either learn to live with your situation, try to improve the situation, or get our of the situation. We're shooting for a combination of the first two.