The kind who has an abusive and neglectful partner, if I had to draw conclusions from . . . *gestures at the entirety of your family tales*
Is it my partner's fault if she herself says she's willing to go "out of a sense of wanting me to be happy?" I mean, it's 90% her fault the kid is so spoiled, but isn't the blame to be laid in the kid in this instance?
I mean, how much can you do to "make" your kid do something that isn't in their own selfish best interest?
That said, when i was a kid, there was not question on something like this. You did as your parents said, and you shut up about it.