You really can’t be a “fine” person and vote Republican.
If you had said vote Trump, I would have to agree. I'm not going to cut out all of the right-leaning (not right-nutters, right-leaning) people in the world as bad people. There are plenty of right leaning men who will make excellent husbands and fathers.
This is probably a good litmus test though: I don't have a problem with you marrying someone right of center, but please don't marry anyone who voted for Trump in 2024.