Originally posted by mankie:
What if you had a couple of kids and he came out of the closet (again) so divorced you? Wouldn't you want him to contribute financially to the children.....he should.
hypothetically, if my husband came out as gay after he'd already promised to be with me and have a family with me, I'd expect him to stay married to me and live in our house until the kids were in college or something...I'd let him go be gay and have lovers and stuff, and I'd have my own, but if he wants contact with the kid, he'd have to stay on the scene as the dad...if he didn't want to be on the scene...then that's cool...but I would interpret that to mean he really didn't care to be a part of his kids' life...I wouldn't want his cash, either, fuck him...