"Maybe I'm getting old...but when you have to wear earplugs at a show, isn't that a sign it's just way too friggin loud?" 
 
 
 Maybe I'm not old enough, but when you have to bring earplugs to wear at  every  show(stage security excepted), isn't that a sign that you're  too damn old for the scene altogether ?  I don't mean to be mean, and I'm  absolutely certain   I've touched a nerve here, but shit, people...WOW
 
 -and of course it's hip to be deaf...just make sure the music don't turn you impotent