PS, Chimbley -- you should send any offending PMs to the moderators, especially if you got more than one. That shouldn't be tolerated, and I'll bet it's not.
Pretty shocking, really. I don't know that I've heard of that happening before (though that may be because many ladies on the board have names that aren't gender giveaways to new members, and who'd want to harrass these guys, especially sexually... ;P )