Concerning circumsized or not guys, I really couldn't care less. Depends more on the guy and how he uses it.
Mankie, maybe you are the way you are because you are both English and American.
For the women, I HATE nubs!!! Yes, a nice clean side area and a trim now and then is the best for most women, in my opinion. Of course, it's only myself that I care about and what my partner thinks.