oh, i have many shows to choose from. . .the highlights, for me, were the May 5, 2001 show at 930, and the two SXSW shows in 95 and 96 where, in one form or another, i got to meet the whole band (pollard has seen my autographed copy of bee thousand, i think)
oh, and while the final show was a great show, it's still too bittersweet for me to rank it.