the j show at black cat sticks out so wonderful in my mind. the lone star j on stage proving his worth without "the one who sould not be spoken" and yes, very loud. i somehow dragged my partner to it, who never goes to concerts with me, thinks my taste in music should have a 'dis' in front of it, hates going into dc, and saw the entire evening as "interesting." he couldn't hear correctly the next morning, thought the bar's beer lines needed cleaning . . . and couldn't understand for the life of him why j plus that loud equals the way it has to be.