I just have problems when there's an expectation of gifts by anyone. Especially when it's by people who can afford it themselves. Something cheesy about specifying what you want your gifts to be.
There's a couple trains of thoughts here.
(1) Have you ever not registered? I didn't register for my first wedding and took so much grief from friends and family that we broke down and registered. People
wantto buy you shit whether you want it or not.
(2) I've been buying so much shit for friends and family for so many years for their stupid kids that if I do ever stick around long enough in a relationship to actually meet my child this time, there's no way I'm letting all my friends and family off the hook of returning the favor simply because I was the responsible one and waited until I was comfortable in life to have a child. That's some straight up bull shit thinking right there.