my wonderful dog, Cirka, was recently told by her vet that her ribs had "a tad more fat on them than necessary." she weights 45 pound, vet suggested that she might be better at 43. she is completely healthy, ridiculously active (just ask Space, he and i had to chase her down once... didn't go well for us), looking at her you would not suspect that she is anything other than a perfectly normal healthy dog, etc.
should i fat-shame her into losing weight? does that work?
should i surround her bed with print-outs of non-representative fat crazies to show her the path she is inevitably headed down???