Originally posted by Señor Carlos:
This guy in the photos is pretty nuts.
I've heard that the suicide rate is quite high among those with facial tattoos.
Is this true, and if so, as a Psych major / body modification aficionado, care to comment thatguy? What are your plans for facial tattoos?
how can you judge him as nuts? you know absolutely nothing about him other than his choice to tattoo his face. i know people with tattooed faces that are upstanding members of society. i know some that are criminals. if i showed you pictures of both together, i bet you wouldn't be able to tell which was which.
i have not seen any research connecting facial tattoos to suicide. i seriously doubt that there is a statistically significant correlation between the two, especially considering how small the population of people with facial tattoos is.
most of the people i know with facial tattoos are among the most confident, well adjusted, happy people i know. i think that my experience is probably skewed due to the circles i travel in, which tend to be more accepting of these kinds of things, but it's what i have observed. there are obviously people out motivated by attention seeking, or looking to totally shun the "normal" world, or any number of other less positive things, but i don't think they are in the majority.
it takes a great deal of courage and self confidence to permanently change your appearance in a way that cannot be hidden. these are not decisions taken lightly. i would guess that nobody on this board knows what it is like to draw attention always, to be unable to hide or blend in. it takes a very strong willed person to make such an irreversible change.
i am currently working on a design that involves both tattooing and scarification that will cover part of my head and face. when the time is right and the design is complete, i will have it done. i already have modifications that cannot be hidden (my lobes, hand and neck tattoos, scarification on my hands and face, etc), so i'm prepared for the consequences of my plans. i would much rather be true to myself and judged or shunned by others than to try to suppress what is a central part of my being in order to fit in.
one of my favorite quotes:
"i never wanted to be different. i just wanted to be me."