julian's advice seems to be working. it's gonna take a loooooooooong time to transfer 55gb of music, but at least it seems to be transferring. this is the first time during this whole ordeal -- and that's what it's been, an ordeal -- that i feel confident. of course, i may have just jinxed myself. hopefully not.
anyway, i can't thank you enough, julian. wow, i did not expect to be typing that today. hope it works out for you, miss p.