If you have listened to the band and have found you don't like their sound, don't listen to them.
It's just a band, a very good one in my opinion. You're not missing anything, there isn't anything to "get." That said, if you can listen to Antics and still use that same tired Joy Division comparison, I'll send you some Q-tips. <img src="http://www.nxsupport.net/forums/images/smilies/carrot.gif" alt=" - " />