How a band acts in person shouldn't really affect how you listen to them...unless you are a hanger-on of that band. For example, lets say that You really like Phil Collins' music. You become obsessed with Phil, following his tour bus and even meeting him after a show. You become acquainted with Phil socially and begin to hang out with him from time to time. The relationship becomes sexual. One day while you're sucking his cock he says he won't cum in your mouth, but he blows his load down your uvula anyway. You ask why he did that, and he tells you to fuck off.
Does this mean that you still can't listen to
Hello I Must Be Going anymore? Does this mean that you have to burn your 45 of
Sussudio I don't think so.