Take your daughter and leave now. You are in an abusive relationship. There are shelters if you need one.
Good Grief. Are you saying you never have fights in your family?
My wife would tell you I abuse her by "making" her do more of the housework and not pampering her enough.
I mean, I can barely convince my kid to go to a show at Millenium Stage and have a nice dinner afterwards. I'm sure as shit not convincing her to go to a shelter.