I don't mind at all being called a fag, fairy or douchebag. Something like "Springsteen devotee" or "Beatles fan" would be far more offensive.
Brian
P.S. Ok...this silliness has gone on for much too long. Let's get back to the Virgin Fest wish list. I know someone who really wants to see Duffy there. So I suggest Duffy. With Bernard Butler would be a plus.