While I do think JeffML is somewhat trolling the more liberal base of this community, I do think there's a conversation to be had about why do (most) of us find the male protagonist High Fidelity tolerable (if the character himself was unlikable) but we have such revulsion for the female fronted one. I do think there is probably some gender roles into why we can stomach misogynistic male curmudgeonly behavior but when we see a woman doing this, we are having such a visceral reaction to this.
I also think part of this is (1) the original movie was not very good, (2) mores have changed and it hasn't aged well, and (3) what is irksome at 90 minutes is intolerable stretched out to 10 hours or however long the show would be.