It's kind of funny, as I've gotten older I sometimes don't listen to certain bands that I held so dear to my heart at a point in time, but the Smiths always end up getting played even now.
The Smiths represent a really dark time in my life. When most kids my age were discovering Metallica and Iron Maiden, I was listening to the Smiths. And I got a pretty massive case of teen angst at a young age (11). That was when I started suffering from clinical depression, which I dealt with on and off for at least 10 years after that. While most folks medicate themselves with pills (if they're in therapy) or booze or drugs, I medicated myself through music. And to me the Smiths were one of the few bands that truly spoke to me, both in music and words. Morrissey was so fucked up, confused, pathetic, lonely, and yet he had an ability to laugh at himself too, which was what I needed to hear.
So when I think of the Smiths, it's kind of like comfort food. It's not exactly going to suit my palate all the time now, but it brings me back to a place and time when I needed SOMETHING to make me feel like everything was going to be OK. Someone was telling me that they felt the same way I did, and that was enough for me to get up every day. And it really cemented my love of music. I'm listening to "The Queen is Dead" right now, and some of it fucking ROCKS. "There Is A Light That Never Goes Out" still bums the shit out of me (not as bad as "Asleep"), but from a purely musical view they were (and still are) brilliant.
If someone wants to be a dick and say that the Smiths suck, then I feel kind of sorry for them. That band's music is sacred to me, but at the time I felt like I was the only one they were talking to, and I treasure the incredibly personal aspect that their music gave to me. I think what made the Smiths special is the fact that they weren't afraid to be mopey, morbid, or depressed. They embraced it as part of humanity, and even if you think Morrissey is a whiny bitch who needs to get laid and eat a steak, he always carried himself with pride for being who he was. He was very unapologetic about it, and I admire that. I especially respect his stance on why he won't reform the Smiths. Good for him.