Seriously, this chick is acting like her little website is God's gift to the local scene or something. The reality is, there have always been websites like BYT that come and go, always run by late-high school or college aged girls (and sometimes a dude or two) who are about two years evolved from being Good Charlotte's or Fall Out Boy's biggest fans, and now think they're doing everyone (including bands, fans and the venues) a favor by existing.
Sorry, you're not the first, you're not the last, and the scene doesn't need you to keep going. Sure, venues aren't going to be total jerks to you, and will accomidate your fantasy of being legitemate internet journalists to a certain point, because it's decent PR; but don't expect them to bend over backwards to you as if their survival depends on your wesbsite's two dozen hits per day.