And looks and having fun, of course, are the point of life.
I'm having more fun than I ever did pre-kid, am 15-20 pounds lighter, and no more gray hair than when I started. And my wife looks great, too.
My wife has stayed at home with my daughter for the last six years giving my daughter the optimal home environment. And it's not even the 1950's.
humans do think that way. where have you been? people with kids versus people without kids, is always a fascinating dynamic to watch.
People with kids look older. They have to get up all the time to change diapers. I swear it ages a person 5 years per baby. I was talking to this guy on just a couple of nights ago who had twins. He said he was assigned a kid and had to sleep in a room with it so it wouldn't wake up the other kid. I had not seen him in probably 4 years and he looked beaten down.
Plus people with kids don't like to go out and have fun anymore. I guess they are too tired. I guess it made sense back in the 50's to have kids when a man earned enough money to have his wife stay at home and she didn't mind taking care of the kids by herself. Well it made sense for the man still sucked for the woman.