Maybe you using your wife as an excuse to not go out to those shows, and then not mentioning anything else, made people on here think you were on a show break because of your wife. I have no idea.
Plus you did say what I quoted earlier:
"I am not really interested in seeing bands right now as my wife is pregnant and can't drink and is grumpy so shows don't sound like much fun at the moment."
So what shows are you going to next week? Or the rest of the month? Or is the answer "none, because my wife is pregnant?"