I'm still out there, mostly pursuing hook-ups but always open to something more substantive with the right person. I have a few friends-with-benefits, two of which call me Papi. Not sure how I fell into that world, but here we are. Interestingly enough, of the 6-7 women I've dated since the start of the year, not one of them was born in the US. This wasn't intentional or by design, but I'm enjoying it quite a bit.