I am reading this incredible book, that has to do with this spiritual medium woman who speaks to the dead to get life advice to allow people to become the most important person they can for themselves. It's like self motivation, times 1000, powered by the energy advise of the Dead.
It's somewhere in one of my bags or something so I can't remember the name of it, at the moment, so you'll have to give me a bit and then I'll tell you what it is.