ok, firstly, this thread is wack.
secondly, as a doorstapher at the club, i feel like i should clear something up. i wasn't working that night, so i don't know what happened. but i will say this: doorstaph do NOT manhandle patrons, whether they be a huge angry meathead or a tiny moshing girl. we react and respond to the given situation with intelligence and practicality, always keeping in mind, first and foremost, the safety and comfort of the patrons. we are far from the typical aggressive bouncers encountered at some other clubs. we do not use violence or aggressive tactics to deal with a situation unless pushed to do so, which is infrequent.
all i can say is, there's probably more to this story than presented by the original teller.