Spoon's website lists M-P on the 22nd and no date at all on the 23rd, so I guess they are not playing the club then.
Seth, your intentions were good but for me it is a question of transportation. Merriwether is just not worth the driving for this VA resident on a weeknight.
I too was crushingly disappointed by the change in venues. I don't do big venues anymore--yes, that is my problem, but it's why I didn't see Spoon at the Virgin Fest, and I was so excited to see them at the club.
But when you hooked up the forum faithful with Pixies tix a few years ago, I swore my undying loyalty to the 9:30 club and you, and I'll stand by that!